Learn about Afternoon Tea Etiquette
Experience the charm of afternoon tea, with all the right manners in place.
A History of Tea
The story of tea can be likened to the story of mankind. It includes the best of us and the worst of us. Throughout its history, tea has been used as a medicine, for meditation, as currency, as bribes and as a way of controlling revolts. It has been responsible for wars and conflicts around the world but it has also been the setting for parties and other, happier occasions. Tea has connected people from all walks of life - from the factory workers to the monks, from the leaf pluckers to Royalty, from the Chinese to the British.
The magical qualities of tea are so well-camouflaged that the leaves that create such a refreshing beverage are no more interesting than the leaves from many other shrubs. However, if they are picked at the right time, processed in the right way, packaged in a way that protects them from humidity and mould, and brewed in the proper manner, these leaves will extract the most precious of flavours, like no other.
The Etiquette class includes the following Key topics: Etiquette, Afternoon tea Windsor style Afternoon tea set: the accoutrements The traditions & history of Afternoon tea How tea is served at the Palace Correct layering of your scone How to eat finger sandwiches Sandwiches, vegan options Jam or cream first on a scone? Scones, how to eat them with elegance Why are pinkies called pinkies? Lemon, sugar & other accompaniments The myth of milk in first or last How to properly hold a teacup & saucer How to stir your tea correctly Pinkie finger etiquette John Montague, 4th Earl of Sandwich Posture & Poise Napkin placement etiquette Use of the Patisserie fork Tea Faux Pas Polite tea talk
What You’ll Learn at Afternoon Tea
Proper Tea Table Manners
Learn the do’s and don’ts of dining, how to use cutlery, napkins, and plates correctly, and how to behave during a traditional tea setting.
Polite Conversation at Tea
Understand what to say, how to say it, and how to enjoy conversation without dominating or disrupting the table.
How to Drink Tea Correctly
From how to hold your teacup to stirring without clinking, you'll learn the small details that make a big impression.
Why Afternoon Tea Etiquette Still Matters
Make a Confident Impression
Whether you're attending a formal tea, hosting one, or joining an international gathering, knowing proper tea etiquette shows confidence and respect.
Understand the Cultural Significance
Afternoon tea is more than a social ritual — it reflects values like patience, consideration, and elegance.
Enjoy the Experience Fully
When you know the rules, you’re free to enjoy the occasion without second-guessing yourself.
Frequently Asked Questions
Not at all. Laura’s sessions are welcoming and practical. You’ll learn everything from how to sit at the table to how to engage in polite conversation — no prior experience needed.
Both. You can book a private lesson or enjoy a group session — including corporate bookings and social events.
Dress smartly but comfortably. We’ll discuss afternoon tea dress code and what’s expected at different venues, from casual cafes to luxury hotels.
Yes, many international meetings or diplomatic events include formal teas. Understanding British tea etiquette can help you navigate these confidently.
Just get in touch through the contact page or schedule a consultation. Laura will help you find the right format, whether one-on-one, in-person, or online.